We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.
By: Ana Vargas
Nowadays I often ask myself what it means to be Dominican. Beyond the sense of belonging that family life generates and the indelible ties to the environment where you spent your formative years, being Dominican is about been cheerful and complaisant. Dominicans are renowned worldwide for their effusive charm and generosity--- we always aim to please and to make others feel celebrated--- like a newly discovered member of the family. A true-blooded Dominican never expects a no for an answer, for they view everything, from casual outings and opportunities to personal misfortune, with the end result in mind. Esteban embodied this to the fullest because he was not interested in pronouncing the word no, believed it would be impolite to say so, for as a true Dominican his eyes are fixated on the light at the end of the tunnel.
Estebancito was a joyful young man who endeavored to please others, to be there for those who needed him most, and to make anyone with low spirits feel good. He was a faithful son, an endearing sibling, and a loyal friend who could always be counted upon. During his brief time on Earth, he connected with countless people and became embedded in their lives, forging beautiful memories and friendships, which I and many others will cherish forever.
Esteban was a person who viewed life as an exciting mystery, a winding path full of opportunities and potential joys. To Esteban, there was no occasion that did not deserve to be celebrated or a date that did not have an explicit meaning to foster some form of pomp and circumstance around.
La Pampara sigue... one of his favorite phrases, which was his way of saying, I am doing what I want to do and I am exactly where I want to be.
Esteban valued being Dominican above nearly and harbored a profound love for the country, its customs, traditions, and its people. He witnessed the innumerable hardships Dominicans faced and sought practical solutions to their onerous struggles. He resolved to sponsor young people that displayed the determination to overcome their circumstances, children who cherished learning but did not have the financial means to pay for their studies or to even enroll in a simple course.
This infectious passion and dedication enabled him to win the hearts of many young people in the community of Haina, who today can take courses to and learn a trade at the Esteban Almonte Youth Center. Esteban made it a personal mission to improve the quality of life for these young people and empower them to help their families and respective communities. That is the essence of being Dominican. Yes, being Dominican means to seek out a life of passion, dedication, and solidarity, that's what a Dominican strives to communicate through each strike of the tambora.
So Esteban, wherever you are, whatever challenges you now face, you will see your dreams come true because you deserve it, as do all the people who knew you and saw in you a noble, free and happy soul. This is how we choose to remember you.
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